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*Sigh* I need to do something....

Fri Oct 10, 2008, 2:01 PM
  • Mood: Disbelief
...away from home.

Seriously, my parents are really working my last nerve.

They've just been fighting too much...and not like, about anything important or reasonable...

Just about stupid stuff!

It's so overly annoying I just want to yell at them while they're doing it, but, being raised the way I was, I'm not really good at getting in the middle of their "business"...though I count it as my business, too if it has to do with my family. But they don't really tell us anything, which gives me even less of a chance to say anything.

And they go about it all wrong! I mean, a lot of the time it's like watching(or listening)to children argue! GOD! They both end up saying stupid stuff, things that I know for certain they don't mean, and my mom always thinks my dad starts the fights and my dad always thinks my mom starts the fights...how do they not know that they both start, like, half the fights? Really...

I hear most of the fights since I'm home most often. My dad thinks he's right too much when I've heard plenty of times when he's not, and my mom gives in and says he's right too much. If I was fighting with my husband and I knew he was wrong, I'd stick too it! And my mom makes comments that just aren't necessary that just escalates things and I think: "Ohmygod! If you didn't say that, this could have stopped a while ago!" But it's just like that when they both get mad, they say stuff they wouldn't say otherwise or to anyone else. Maybe it's just cause they've known each other for so long, they know what annoys each other. I may not be right, but I don't think the way to resolve something is to get on the other person's nerves as much as you can :iconnotimpressedplz: And they interrupt each other too much! It urks me to no end that my dad always gets mad when he gets interrupted even though he interrupts people the most!

If they would ask a third party's opinion once in a while, like, I don't know, their children who've been around all their lives listening to these fights, they might actually resolve some once in a while instead of jest getting mad, yelling, then letting it go unfinished and fester in the back of their minds until the next fight!...:pissed:

There's only so many tears I can shed for their constant fighting and the things they say to each other, now all I want to do is get in their faces, yell, and tell them how stupid they're being, or at least get them to talk to us once in a while. I know they love each other, I know that for a fact, but they need to show it more.

I can go on and on and on about this, but I won't, this journal is long enough. I would like advice about how to talk to them and stop this stupidity, if ya'll have any to give. It'd be appreciated. But I don't wanna hear anything bad said about my parents! Of course, I know most of you so I know you wouldn't say anything bad about them. I know sometimes they look at our DA pages, but I don't care if they read this. I actually hope they do! Like my dad keeps saying, I'm an adult, and I'm gonna express my opinions like one.

Other than that, I just need prayer, lots and lots of it. If there's one person I know I can trust, it's God, and if there's more people I know I can trust, it's all my friends :D So, just, please help me hang in here, kay!

God Bless~! :heart:

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Sadly there isn't much advice I can give on the situation. Things like this is one of the things that actually lead to my parents divorce, and till this day I can't stand to hear either of them raises their voices to anyone, especially me.

The only advice I can give that worked for me is to be tough. But even then, I have moments like yours where it just seems too much, though I go about dealing with it in a much different way.

Anyways, try talking to mami first to let her know, and be honest about it. But before you do talk to her, think about what you WANT to say in your head. Play it out in your mind before you actually speak it so you have all you want to say straight beforehand. Thats what I try to do.

I'm not sure about papi honestly. You can do the same thing, but hell, it may work it may not. Good luck. Love ya Nina. Stay strong ^^

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I think the best thing to do in a situation like that is pray. My parents fight like that sometimes and I've found that the best thing to do is get out of their way and pray about it. I've said this before to other people: It isn't healthy to escape to the internet all the time, but your DA friends are always here for you. :3

I do hope things get better! :heart:

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